My Future

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Mummy stumped upon this posting by a fellow Mummy and finds it meaningful. To tell the truth, Mummy is copying it down for my further viewing... Hmm... what will i think in the future... how will i feel in the future...

To be honest, Mummy doesn't even knows if I will contiune to write on this blog when I grow up...


曾在廣播裡听到 ,當孩子頂嘴甚至步入叛逆期時的因應之道 做媽媽的總是嘮叨 ,有一次已經高中的兒子不耐煩的頂撞了母親 , 母親氣得半死。
做父親的便約兒子一起出門散步。兩人走了好久 , 父親一路上不發一語 , 兒子納悶。 一直到要進家門口時 , 父親拍拍兒子的肩膀, 以男人對男人的語氣說 : 『等一下進去時 , 給我女人一點面子 !』 兒子驚讶於老爸用哥兒們的語氣對他說話 ,並因男人跟男人之間的義氣 , 從此對母親畢恭畢敬的。 所以 , 有的時候 , 父親這個角色還是頗重要的 !


當我的小孩頂撞我時，我想告訴他，下列的事任選一樣，做到後，才有頂撞的權利：
1. 連續3 個月每吃完一餐就須催吐 (孕吐)
2. 乳頭被別人吸到破皮達一個月 (餵奶)
3. 肚子塞一顆籃球達 10 個月 ( 懷孕)
4. 接受皮鞭抽打達 48 小時 (生小孩)
5. 10 個月不能喝冰水、咖啡、茶
6. 5個月睡覺不能翻身
7. 10 個月不能出遊遠行，不能跑跳
8. 10個月不能生病，要不，生病不能吃藥
9. 至育嬰室把屎把尿一個月
10. 晚上睡覺每二個小時起床一次，清醒30 分鐘達一個月

寫完上述10 項，我覺得當娘的真不是人幹的。 想起一個高中同學他說：有一次頂撞母親，父親把他從椅子上踹下來，斥責他: 你媽是我捧在手心的寶，我呵護她，照顧她，對她輕聲細語，你憑什麼對他大小聲!!! 我的同學再也不敢頂撞母親了。 ~好感動，尤其是最後一句是經典。 男人們丫，如果你們真的愛、疼你老婆（女朋友）記得這句話就夠了！ 老婆是拿來疼的，所以千錯萬錯都是自己的錯，不服氣嗎？誰叫你當初追人家。 當媽的如果听到老公這麼說，應該會很高興吧！男人要學著點...

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